7 Relationship goals You Should Really Want

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2. A S.O. (significant other) who lifts you up and reminds you how awesome you are when you really need to hear it.

Being in a relationship should feel good, not anxious and stressful! Your S.O. should always be someone you can go to for support, and to help you overcome challenges you’re facing. While people in our lives push us to be the best we can be, healthy relationships accept and love you for the person you are today.

2. When your S.O. asks how you’re feeling, you can let it all out without any judgment.

An essential part of a healthy relationship is to have good communication. This can encompass a lot of different things. Healthy communication can mean compromising and finding mutually beneficial solutions to arguments– or to simply feel comfortable sharing your honest thoughts with your partner. And equally important – be a good listener!

3. Being with someone who will sweep you off your feet, not step on them.
Good partners recognize that they are a part of your life, and are not your entire life!  Your S.O. should encourage you to achieve every dream and aspiration you have, and should always give you the space you need in order to accomplish them. Even more than that, having a significant other should never mean that you have to give up your relationships with friends or family. Your partner is there to make your life even better, not take people away from it.






 4. Feeling totally cool saying no, and really excited when you want to say yes!
When it comes to intimacy one thing is for certain; you should only do things with your S.O. that you feel 100% comfortable with. A cool partner respects your boundaries and would never pressure or shame you for not wanting to do certain things. In a healthy relationship, your partner knows how far you want to go, and always checks in if they think you might be uncomfortable.

 5. When your S.O. knows that binge watching 3 seasons of GOT in a week doesn’t mean you love them less.
Sometimes you just need alone time. Whether that means tea, chocolate, Netflix, Tumblr, yoga, hiking–or anything you need in order to recharge–it is always okay to take care of yourself. People in relationships support each other, and sometimes that support means giving your partner space so they can enjoy their hobbies & passions!






 6. Being with someone who knows your texts are for your eyes only, and is totally cool with it.
You should never feel pressured to give your S.O. your passwords or access to your phone or computer. Healthy relationships are built on trust and mutual respect of each other’s privacy. You should not have to worry about your partner snooping through your phone when it’s unattended, or having to constantly answer questions about who’s been posting on your Facebook wall.

 7. When you say you need some quality time with your friends tonight and your S.O. couldn’t be more understanding.
Respecting each other’s priorities and independency is KEY. A respectful partner never creates drama or questions you for wanting to do things that don’t include them. Giving each other the space to do your own things is a sign of a healthy relationship, and actually makes your quality time together even better.